Red Mummy
Pencinta Merah...The Red Lover...The Red Diva
...I'm living for my loved ones, with our red blood flowing through our veins until death do/tear us apart...
Tuesday, January 30, 2007
Can you pls...



can u please buy the battery and pasang balik kat jam yang dah seminggu goal kaligol. can u please drill this and that, tempek kat wall since the paint that paint dah berbulan dalam bilik abang. can u pls throw the rubbish immediately coz ada isi ikan sotong which can make my kitchen getting smelly. can u pls throw the baju straight into the kitchen not at my hall. can u pls ensure u send my car to wash since it s been months already. can u pls u check my car battery, the tyres everything bout my car since i m a useless driver. can u pls do things without im asking you to do so. can u pls pls pls make my mouth shut. oh im tired.


can u pls stop playing while in a class. can you pls ensure that you get number one in yr exams. can u pls dont play2 while reading your alif ba ta when nanny is teaching you. can u please remember your ik ek san sek pu liau so on at least for the number 50. can u please read your bahasa melayu promptly. can u please hafal those doas nicely. can u pls and can u pls stop playing just while studying. mummy is tired to ask you to do this and that and shout and yell and be the loudspeaker at home and sometimes from office while calling you over phone. can u?

can u pls eat wt your right hand not wt yr left hand, even u are lefthanded. how many times mummy have to tell you. can you pls let me choose the outfits for you everyday, you are just little girl, you are not even 3 yet. you are safe, i dont have much complaints about you yet.


oh it s time to get the old baby's magazines out from the boxes. it s time.


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Monday, January 29, 2007
Wedding day...

my ex colleague was getting married on sunday, so since venue nya nun jauh kat Shah Alam, we decided to tag along my sister and her husband. pasainya after the wedd akak n sirman nak menyinggah this one shop next to Dewan MPSA.


Pengantin perempuan is my fren, got married wt a musician, group apa pun akak tak tau, lupa la......tapi cantik pelamin dia, ala2 dalam taman gitu, cam Datuk Siti nye pelamin pun ye gak. akak dok meja belakang, so nak shoot gambo pun main zoom2 jer...dari jauh je leh hi hi bye bye kat pengantin.


teka cepat...sapa mamat ni?





ramai gaklah artis yang datang, but i dont give a damn wt them...i love taking photos wt gegirl, she is so adorable, everytime sirman tries to snap mine, she will buat bising kecoh, that her photo must be snapped too.




if u see abang takde lam gambo ni, that means lepas je dia had lunch terus mengular main carik geng. that s the normal routine of abang, x leh dok diam, tu pasal kalo wedding2 camni, akak carik port meja yg belakang2, kalau kat depan kang, jenuh lak aku nak pusing satu dewan cari dia.after the event, here we are, the place that we wanted to get my stuff.



nice lamp...quite cheap cheap sale!

untie pearl..a duck for you

can u pls make up yr mind, which one yang u nak
waitlah..i want this but emm..yang tu pun lawa gak...



how come she is taller than me?






while mom and dad are doing their shopping, kids and penakan went down to the kids centre....senang sket akak nak beli barang.




we got what we need for but x yah la snap2 gambo tu. at the end, ngah2 bergambo, tokey cina tu cakap 'akak tak boleh amik gambo kat dalam ini kedai'.





kaco daun jelah..so dont blame me, blame tokey kedai tu.




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Sunday, January 28, 2007
The full Saturday....

our day today started at 930am, went off to Hajris Bistro in our are, Bandar Sri Permaisuri for breakfast, x sedap sungguh roti canai telurnya....separuh pun akak x abih makan. Next to Hajris is the kedai mato and kedai for computers h/ware bagai. both places were then our nxt trip then.





remember that i lost my spek mato while in kelantan? so all this when i m at home, watching tv and reading you over my pc, i have to wear my lens. otherwise i have to mengecikkan mata since i m so so rabun kalo x i have to wear my old spek yang bingkainya dah nak arwah. so since my disposable lens dah abih stock, i went to this shop to get my normal lenses lah. but since this is my first time being their customer, and they are currently having a very good sales, ok lah akak rembat la satu spek.


akak nampak muda tak with this spek?
no, im not taking this one, i want another one, more discount lah leng chai...

ok amoi, since yr kids are so cute, i ll give u the best price... now, pls take off yr lens, kita kena check power again


no no, i dah pakai make up i x nak bukak my lens, my power is this and that so just use it


amoi nanti u pening2 kalau kita x ukur power u lagi


malas malas, akak x nak bukak lens, amik je power yang akak ckp tu


yalor yalor...




mummy2, pls snap my photo wt daddy

my photo oso pls....

headed to Lorenzo and Homelife....

nice red sofa kan?


we are looking for something but survey2 dulu before what we decided to buy first


what do u think if i get that long mirror?



done for the half day of Saturday, balik at 2pm...empat2 terus tido and woke up at 530 for our swimming time



and after so long, i decided to join them to swim as well...



mummy2, my photo wt Mak Andak pls...

snoozing and tired

iklan jap, top ngan bawah ni nye gambo is actually gambo artis nama oshin dari kump lips tu, yang kuor lam Melodi for Terjah katanya ada affair ngan Datuk tu lah, dia ngan kawan2 dia or family ke dok sebelah meja akak, .....dok berkempit ngan dia ada one little girl ni tp akak x tau lah tu anaknya ke adik ke hapa...payah tol akak nak zoom amik gambo minah ni, dia cam lari2 jer coz dia nampak akak pegang kamera gitu kan





snappy2 before going out for dinner




dinner time, KL downtown....kids dah meraban lari sana sinun. foods nye gambo lupa nak ngamik coz semua dah kebulur


the pengantin baru...think dah basi already, 2 months kan....



one makcik was trying to convince me buy this tonic merapat, mengempis dan segala menganakdara kan mak orang cam akak .....but akak nicely say no lah. dont think will get this di tepi2 jalan, i will surely need some advises if i were to drink this tonic

jalan2 time..


sirman ni suka snap bakang aku tau...ingat lawa hagaknya?? bughuk tau x


mom i want this


and i want this too


educational vcd and books for kids are worth to buy here


gegirl still takut to those benda2 yang pakai patung gini. meraung cam nak rak

she s actually crying so loud!

sirman wt kids, my little sis and hubby

uncle, one for me and one for my sister pls


love to hear this group singing and performing, better than those yang kat stage berkaraoke



leaving kl downtown at 1115pm. nice place to hang out and cuci mata but not worth to shop2.... the goods that they are selling are too expensive for the place like this.


resting time...sunday to go.




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Saturday, January 27, 2007
Friday the day...

those guys are our ladies futsal coach

so i ve been selected by the coach to be part of the ladies futsal in my kompeni's team. hoyeyhhhh!!! im gonna kick yr ass~~~. tough days, headed for my training, 4 coach were supposed to train us, one had gone for emergency call, so 3 orang je lah yg ada. we started a bit early coz dema need to rush for the solat jumaat. nice. i m in love wt this game...no more words cud describe how excited i am.

this giant lady is a very good striker, she can kick the ball straight to the goal. akak suka banget!! me, was a striker before but i always failed sumbat bola lam goal, so i asked for a change, i m good to be a defender, bak kata dema, i m a fighter and main kasar, so, defender is a good position for akak yang main ganas. siap la sapa kena siku tubi aku nanti. im small but my heart and determination is big.


i m not a reserve player but im in the main line of the team. so akak dah buktikan that being a petite lady is not a problem for me. here are my team player...3 quarter of us are mak orang...see see??


back upstairs, i continue snapping2 photos. they both are my keligs, in fact everyone in this entry are all my keligs. the purple kebaya lady asked me 'u bring yr camera every where ke kak red?' guess my answer??



to get these ppl's photos, it s not easy, they are bz working and so do i. so whenever i go, walking around while working i carry my camera along. gila bergambo akak kan? may be the reason that i said in my previous entry is coming true kot kan? oh no..dont spread the rumours, i m just saying - if maybe lar...




and dang at almost 7pm...my badminton games begins - as usual.




u see this, my female partner was still bz working, she turun a bit lambat so i have to play wt those 3 guys. 2 men vs 1 man and 1 lady. it s a tough fight, though team akak kalah. but i know, my badminton skill has improved compared than a year ago.




oh here she comes my badminton partner. today she told me that i can beat her if i keep on practising bertubi2. i will.


2 big tournaments are waiting for me next week. another tough week ahead.


but, while u see me cheering and having fun playing here and there, snapping photos sana sinun, my heart and my mind is not working well. im so serious thinking bout my son's education.

i will tell you further later bout it.










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Thursday, January 25, 2007
Snappy...

if i dont have anything to say here, i would like to share my photos with my colleagues. from now on, akak nak cuba amik gambo wt each one of staff in my dept, nak dapatkan satu opis kompeni mmg melampo lah kan, but jadi lah ngan mana yang ada.....









so sume orang pelik dan muskil. and the question from them was 'eh, what s the agenda? napa kena amik gambo all of us ni kak red' ..... so my answer was..


....

....

....





if i were to leave this company, at least i have a memory wt you, at least i have a photo snapping wt you.
....
....


as expected...


rumors that kak red will be leaving, been spread out to the whole world.



am i?

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Wednesday, January 24, 2007
Gossip...
ingat x kadang2 akak kalo hangin lam blog ni akak buat iklan akak buat entry kat mangkuk2 lalat ni baca lah kan. so smlm akak dah type panjang berjela ni nak mengomel lagi kan hauk2 yang pinggan2 berayun tu lah. ini mode tengah marah hyper tension.


but pastu while driving back, good mood, fikiran waras, berpikiran panjang...akak rasa x perlulah akak bazir masa akak posting that bloody entry. bak kata korang2 lam komen bod akak tu, x perlu dilayan. ini mode baik ati.


anw kan akak nak cite lah, nak ngumpat anyam ketupat boleh ke ha? alah x jadi lah. ramai sangat orang yg kenal akak and baca blog akak and pastu nnt kang tepon2 akak email2 akak meydey2 akak tanya 'kak red kak red' hish...x leh x leh. tu lah payahnya bila orang dah kenal aku and pastu nak citer hal keliling pun kena pikir 18 kerat kali.






so sok lusa akak ada pemilihan futsal to represent my big whole company. hawau tol akak ingatkan selepas berhempas pulas mengolek2 bola tu every friday lunch hour, aku dah terpilih rupanya ada another round of selection lagi. ciii!!!

and while i was odw up to my office, lam lift ni ngan big the very big boss kompeni big whole akak. ko tau dia tanya apa 'so kak red, i heard that u were kicking everyone aritu, masa tournament futsal...kaki pukul sungguh you ni' hanj..... tollah. sapa la yg menyampai bwk mulut sgt kan. katanya lagi 'the report came to me and nvr mind, u play so so well, that s what i heard'


em yelah tu....jangan effect aku nye performance udahlah, it s only a game, outside of my waktu kerja ye. pastu dia dok tanya tu tanya ni, but org2 yg lam lift tu majority sume dah sengih2 tunjuk gigi kerang busuk ..... ha sapa buat hal, jgnkan lam futsal aku leh seligi, aku telan ko cam mana aku telan goat's testicles wt worm aritu..mau mau??




kepada ramai yg tertanya2 mana hilangnya chat box akak kat tepi kiri tu which is also known as Red Potpet Redded...buat masa ni down a week or more. masalahnya dah seminggu ni, masih lagi down. bukan akak saje2 katup but mmg ngah down. sirman has contacted the owner or runner of the chatbox tu tapi belum up2 lagi lah. sila bawak2 bersabar ye adik2.




gossip2 yang akak nak citer tu, sok2 akak post yeah..bagi suspens lagi sket lar.

moh hayun. pinggang aku sakit dah ni.


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Tuesday, January 23, 2007
The sleeping beauty...

Ms Zal away from California sent me an email wt poem re to my sleeping habit.





A Long, Long Sleep, A Famous SleepPoem lyrics of A Long, Long Sleep, A Famous Sleep by Emily Dickinson.



A long, long sleep, a famous sleep



That makes no show for dawn



By strech of limb or stir of lid, --



An independent one.



Was ever idleness like this?



Within a hut of stone



To bask the centuries away



Nor once look up for noon?





i notice that over the weekends, 2-5pm is the bad timing of my eyes. selalu mengantuk time2 gini, and that s why i m calling my hunt buddies, to enroll me for any of the games that you have - quickly. to stop my bad habit.



tido tido tido.....








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Monday, January 22, 2007
Dib dib....

Reita ajak akak pi tgk AJL, boiprennya dapat tiket sapu la ni, but tuntutan hidup x membenarkan. lepas abang kebah, gegirl plak demam, so x leh le nak berjoli2 sakan lagi. so tgk dari tv je lah.



sonok tengok adibah noor menang, sedap jugak lagu and nyanyian nora pun mengasyikkan wpun zaman dia dah berlalu (pada akak ye, die hard fan dia jangan seligi akak). mawi menang sorak! terbongkok2 tiga budak ni menyanyi. nothing bout him that can impress me selain rambut palsunya ajer yang make him look diff dari rambut botaknya. Juwita M Nasir, apa yang sedap nya kat sini akak x tau lah dik. Zahid ok ok so so. syahdu lagunya.


iklan 1 jap
akak rasa cam nak cili2 je mulut or jari orang tu. jahat ko kan? busuk ati sangat ngan akak kan.



hazami nye show mmg malatops! bagus mamat ni, kerahan tenaga kat student dia ke?. betul2 ada stylo tol koir patung muka yg dema pakai tu, silap2 taun depan ada le yg tiru nnt tu.


the rest emm...dayang nurfaizah, fuiyoooooooo..very the terbuka2 sana sini, purposely singkap belah kiri kanan. baju yang ning pakai tu mmg lawa sgt, dia mmg le ada tokoh jadi juri but liza hanim??? gosh, she doesnt deserve to be there, for me yeah, pendapat akak, korang kalo nak marah akak pasal liza hanim ni rentikan lah..




iklan 2
akak menyampah tol ngan orang yg duduk kat blog akak dendiam pastu pi bersorak riang ria kat blog orang mengumpat2 aku directly lak tu. kdg2 dia jadi lalat kat sini pakai nama tu pakai nama ni. bukan akak jer x suka, orang lain pun x suka ngan pangai2 camni.


pasan x si ally tu asik pandang je dada si cheryl bila dema tuko ke last costume, kaler merah tu? the three stooges ni nye combination mmg bagus molek, ada peningkatan. segar je tgk AJL kali ni. itu budak2 yg jadi penari pengiring senario/adibah..tergedik2, meriah akak tengok, kalo aku disuruh menggedik camtu, mau roboh pentas.


nana, bob/aspalela, p/ugly sekadar perhiasan jer lah. elina sekadar mendabik dada kanannya je yg obviously. mbe she doesnt has the confident utk pakai kasut tinggi yet.


ella lawa comel jelita, pestime akak tengok dia bersanggul. mmg vast. pun x pakai kasut, gamaknya takut kasut dia pijak kain dress nya yg mengurai pjg gitu. napa akak cam x dengo apa faizal oiam tu nyanyi, cam x kena je suara dia nyanyi lagu m nasir tu lah. ima dangdut....sedap je tgk dia berdangdut, terliuk le abang2 menengoknye kan. tp ada sorang penari dia tu yg baju merah, no 2 from the left, punya gelek dangdutnya mmg melampo2 lak akak ngk.

iklan 3 lak
jadi adalah dengan ini, siapa yang menjadi lalat kat sini, menganiya ngan memfitnah akak ko yang vogue ni, dengan ini akak sumpah ko....... sumpah apa?



overall...tahniah kerana anda berjaya menonton AJL, dengan iklan yang paling ringkas dan cepat.

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Sunday, January 21, 2007
Together Day..
On our anniversary day, we have set and plan for do our dating day again. we have promised before, that every friday will always be our dating nite, on weekly basis, but turns out our bzness x leh nak coop wt the promises.


so since a month ago, i hv booked sirman for our anniv day to go out wtout kids. so on Fri the 19th Jan, we both took leave and head off for our inpromtu plan. i still woke up in the morning, and since this is my chance to send abang to school for the first time in this year..ini lah masanya.



abang was so excited bila dia tau yang his mom will send him today instead of his dad. memanglah Dad dia ikut sama but bila akak kuor lambat dr umah, 'nak mummy hantar not daddy'...yelah..mak ko nak anto la ni.



kelam kabut pagi ni bila sampai je assembly dah nak start, so sempat kiss and tengok dari luar pagar je. gegirl as every morning, itulah rutinnya...she seems to be hard to lepaskan abang dia, she wants to join the crowd but her moment is not there yet, u have to wait darling, u are not even 3 yet.






gegirl reached first, told you she s so excited to go to school oso.












after school, we went to hajris bistro to take our roti canai wt gegirl. bot her 1 pair of toys to be shared wt her bro, sebagai umpan supaya dia x meraung dan melalak coz the parents nak pi berjoli joli sakan. kaedahnya umpan x menjadi bila dia tetap gak menangis lonjak2 nak ikut...apakan daya, hari ini hari parents day ko nak pi bercinta.




so we went to MV, layan wayang and shopping. to get the anniv gifts for each other. i wanted to get a watch, since the pecah rumah kes, i didnt have any of that anymore. sedih tol....collection jam sume dah disamun. i ve been this kedai jam's customer for so so long, many2 years. even the sling bag that akak pakai tu pun was a free gift from the shop. salesgirl tu pun leh cakap, lah kak red lama tol pakai sling bag tu, sayang tol akak ngan beg tu. see..i m a good customer, akak pakai barang pandai simpan lama. except perfumes lah, dah abih x kan aku nak simpan, buang ler jwbnya.



a day b4, i ve booked through online few movies, back to back yang kita nak tgk sangat today. so as a start, we watch The Guardian. not so best sgt lah, x delah gempak sngt but ada jugak part yang buat akak kuor air mata...aku kan minah leleh.



kat2 nak abih show, my both lines dok vibrating and missed calls byk kali le pulak from my mom. so akak kuor kejap from the cinema and layan call...



something that will spoil our anniv day plan...



we quickly grab our late lunch, makan sepantas kilat...and back to our kids back. turns out, abang is not well. balik dari school dia muntah2 and demam panas. so back to back movie yang nak ditonton terpaksa dibatalkan immediately, candle nite dinner terpaksa dipostpone ke lain ari lain masa lain taun demi anak yang perlukan mak ayahnya.





headed to meet our family doctor, Dr Raha. she s been serving me for emm..6 years already and all of my family records are all under her care.





anw, gegirl skang is a model in our family. kalau dulu akak yang gila2 bergambar sakan, la ni...bila nampak je camera she wants her photos to be snapped. she will post cam iklan2 lam tv majalah and bila akak dload gambo lam pc, 'eiiiiiiiiiiiii prettynya gegirl'. perasan budak kecik ni.





abang dibekalkan ngan ubat yang banyak. Dr Raha also gave us a stand by letter for emergency case, to bring him for any of the pvt hospitals if he doesnt make any good health changes. since selera dia x nak makan nasi, we brought him to KFC to take away his fav meals. apa2 je asal abang nak makan. sampai umah bukan abang je yang landing pasal demam, mak nye pun tarik blanket tido till midnite baru sedo.



abang recovered in less than 24hours, salam awal muharram.

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Friday, January 19, 2007
The transformation of Kak Red


the transformation of Kak Red from 38kgs, turn out to be 68kgs and now stuck at 48kgs. u ll be looking and viewing lots of the transformations, u will see the differences, u will laugh and u will be saying 'oh my god, she is soooooooooooooooo different!!!'


pardon me, but today is my day. today is the big day for me. what day is it?







the akad dan nikah back few yrs ago









malam berinai wt adat bunga api






nurul shukor had never failed me





bersanding merah

menyambut menantu




honeymoon time, i cut my hair damn short!











i was carrying abang in the tummy, and he was 3.62kg via ceasoran



abang was about to deliver




and here he comes...




stop here....those above photos were all wt Abang...gegirl was not in the picture yet.


and here is gegirl, 6 months in me, normal delivery 3.1kg




Berpantang time













it s my day, it's our Anniversary Day.




19th January 2001.


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Thursday, January 18, 2007
Yey!!!
Set against the backdrop of civil war and chaos in 1990's Sierra Leone, Danny Archer, a South African mercenary and Solomon Vandy, a Mende fisherman are joined in a common quest to recover a rare pink diamond that can transform their lives.

While in prison for smuggling, Archer learns that Solomon who was taken from his family and forced to work in the diamond fields - has found and hidden the extraordinary roughstone. With the help of Maddy Bowen, an American journalist whose idealism is tempered by a deepening connection wt Archer, the two men embark on a trek through rebel territory, a journey that could save Solomon's family and give Archer the second chance he though he would never have.

Kowang pi le nengok cite ni dik, best gila siot. best sangat2. tapi kalau ada anak2 or adik2 yang umur under age tu janganlah tengok sama ngan dema. mmg x digalakkan. kalau orang bg sinopsis x kasi tau ending kan, ha meh akak bagitau ending dia segala lah yeah.


si leonardo ni cam broker dik, pendek cite kat africa ni dia pi lah nak smugger the diamonds, tp dia kena tangkap kantoi dek polis africa sana so ms dalam penjara kejap tu dia dengo ada satu pemerintah yang kena tembak tangkap tu cakap ngan sorang lg african nama solomon ni for the pink diamond yang dia jumpa. bila leonardo dengo, dia kuor je pas member dia jamin, dia suh member dia lak jamin si solomon ni.


solomon ni kisahnya sedih sgt, dia org kpg africa yg susah2 ni lah, anak 3, baby dia mati while perang tembak sana sini, anak2 dia ikut bini dia berpisah ngan dia dema jadi pelarian and dia lak kena paksa jadi buruh kasar carik diamonds ni. so mulalah perjalanan idup dia ngan si leonardo ni utk mencari family dia provided diamonds tu hendaklah diberi keapda leonardo tu.


sedih partnya bila anak sulong lelakinya telah ditangkap oleh pemberontak2 kat africa ni. korang tau lah african ni nye child soldiers gila nya zalim. sedari budak2 tu lom akil baligh lagi dema dah brainwashed and trained to be a soldier yang tersangat2 zalim. dema bagi dadah, isap rokok, mabuk, membunuh and berperang...bayangkan inilah yang menyedihkan bila solomon dapat tau anaknya telah jadi salah seorang pemberontak. so when he found out kat mana bini ngan anak pomp nye, dia pun cuba nak selamatkan anak lelakinya lah pulak.



make it short.........anaknya dapat diselamatkan tapi dah cam ilang ingatan dah cam x kenal bapak sendiri, siap nak bunuh bapak sendiri lagi tu. and leonardo lak terluka kena tembak masa kejadian tembak menembak to get the pink diamonds yang dema kejar2 kan sgt ni. solomon yang dah bersahabat ngan leonardo x sanggup nak tinggalkan leonardo kat kaki bukit tu (coz they need to climb up up to the hill pasai mini aircraft dok tunggu dema to rush out from the place). so ngan anaknya dia dukung si leonardo ni.



when they almost nak sampai situ, leonardo mintak benti x larat wpun solomon dukung dia, mmg leonardo dah x tahan and x larat sangat2...dia bagi pink diamond tu kat solomon suh solomon uruskan segala. he will call Mande, the journalist from US yang byk tolong dema masa kat africa tu. leonardo tau he cant make it at all, he knows that he s gonna be dyeing anw. he insisted gak suh solomon ngan anak nya pi naik top of the hill. and b4 leonardo mati, dia sempat tepon journalist to tell her everything and mintak tlg uruskan solomon ngan familynya and the pink diamond yang dema jumpa tu.



bayangkan solomon yang papa kedana, kemudian datang ke london, jual pink diamond tu atas pesan dan wasiat leonardo. pendekkan citer, solomon kemudian live in london, bawak semua family members dia, terutama anak lelakinya yang telah rosak kerana dijajah otak dan lakunya by the group penyangak2. bayangkan le budak umur 9,10 taun disuruh membunuh, mabuk2 isap dadah segala. x ke rosak dah budak tu. at least, idup solomon mmg mewah di london, he sold the pink diamond at more than few millions euro i guess (coz at first buyer tu nak beli at 2 mil euros tp dia x nak, dia nak harga lagi mahal yang buyer tu dah janji kat leonardo earlier).



wpun leanordo mati dalam citer ni, but ini adalah satu citer yang amat mengtaksubkan akak ngan lakonannya. he should win any of the awards given. mmg dia handallah. Mesti wajib tonnton - the Blood Diamond.


sekali sekali buat liputan citer on films ok lah, nak suh ari2 ko hengat akak pengulas filem.


hi all...say GK.


This is GK, my best colleague. GK looks like a china boy but he s actually a Chindian, mother is a chinese and father is an Indian, and he has an Indian name as well. Gk is seating next to me and always be my potpet partner. He celebrated his bday over the weekend and to you GK...semoga cepat lagi kawin!!!




we had a birthday drink for him on Mon at Sevenate9, but it falls on Monday working day after 7pm. at first akak decided nak pi, but bila dah kol 6 tu akak dah cam malas le pulak coz badan very the flatty. since GK comes from the very big and rich and hartawan family, x tau le pulak apa adiah akak nak bagi for his bday.


tu lah masalahnya bila dema ni tiap2 kali bg aku adiah, but bila akak nak bagi adiah kat dema, they insisted me to keep my money or my token. katanya for my kids. but this time akak nak bagi gak, nak bagi baju kang kalo aku beli yg rege 100, baju dia per piece pun dah 3,4 ratus. so pening nak bg adiah kat org2 kaya hazab sgt ni.




and suddenly BLINK!!! i got an idea.!!!!





to GK, i present you...................................................





































matiklah bagi orang adiah rokok 5 kotak!!!




RED MUMMY redded @ 10:00 AM  
Wednesday, January 17, 2007
Mohon kemaafan...
last nite, i ve done something bad. not indirectly though. i ve hurt someone's feeling. and i feel so so bad bout it.


at work, i cried, i blame myself for being so so stupid, acting like &%&*()_)^$$# to that someone.


and at the end of the day, i decided to get that someone something to cheer the heart back.



over here, over my blog, to announce to everyone too, that i m so deeply sorry to that someone.



I m truly sorry. Please forgive me. A song for you too...


Who made up the rules
We follow them like fools
Believe them to be true
Don’t care to think them through

I’m sorry
So sorry
I’m sorry
It’s like this
I’m sorry
So sorry
I’m sorry
We do this

And it’s ironic too
Cuz what we tend to do
Is act on what they say
And then it is that way

I’m sorry
So sorry
I’m sorry
It’s like this
I’m sorry
So sorry
I’m sorry
We do this

And who are they
And where are they
And how can they possibly know all this

And who are they
And where are they
And how can they possibly know all this

Do you see what I see
Why do we
Live like this
Is it because it’s true
That ignorance is bliss

And who are they
And where are they
And how do they know all this
I’m sorry
So sorry
I’m sorry
It’s like this

Do you see what I see
Why do we
Live like this
Is it because it’s true
That ignorance is bliss

And who are they
And where are they
And how can they know all this
I’m sorry
So sorry
I’m sorry
We do this



I heard this song from
Pearl's blog, and asked her if she can emailed me the lyrics but she suggested me this link by Jem . so kalau nak denga camne lagunya, pi blog pearl and layan lyrics kat sini. pemalas tol akak nak dload lagu ni kan!

Moralnya...I m seriously sorry.

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Monday, January 15, 2007
Malu yang bersejarah...


akak lupa dik on my FF show. till last sunday semalam, si Archmal smsed akak 'wei kak red, yr show is on air now' wah...laju je akak tuko channels. but anw, akak pun x promote sesangat over sms, so sapa dpt ngk, ngk lah kalo sapa x dpt ngk tu kesal la gitu kan. yg kakornya dalam aku x promote2 tu ramai le pulak yg sms yg tepon akak 'weii, ko on air tu, weii show ko ngah kuor tu, weii apesal muka ko cuak tu, weii akak ko makan ke worm tu kak?'


yeah rite, for Mal specially yang jadi follower of FF, sungguh2 tiap2 minggu tengok ni, hazab gitu kan. For Fiebie, Panther, Aron, David G, Shah yang meriah tengok bersama misi2 and nurse2nya di spital and ramai lagi lah yang menalipon and mengsmsed akak, thanks a lot for your carutan, kutukan and encouragement gak lar...



yang pasti, ianya adalah sesuatu kemaluan yang bersejarah!


1st stunt

tergantung tunggang terbalik kat one of the bridge in Putrajaya. akak kena beat wt the ladies pendekkan citer i managed to get through this stunt.


ko boleh buat spt yang akak buat??? katanya....


actually anak2 akak bukannya eran dah tgk maknye kuor tv pasal dvdnya awal taun lepas dah berulang kami dema tgk. mesti dema cakap 'le cite ni lagi mak aku kuor, x de cite lain ke'

muka yang cuak bukannya datang kerana tidak boleh boleh, tetapi cuak pasal aku takut kalah kena balik jer nanti!



That s Mat, my lovely brother, he was in my team while we did our FF audition, apparently dia kena bungkus balik at the 1st stunt coz timing dia teruk reason coz 'the key is bengkok'.

its not that easy babe, ngan panasnya ngan bahangnya lagi. after this stunt akak demam panas terus.




jumping around while i found out that i got through to the 2nd round. jgn ko je gelak besau tgk action akak, it s tiba2 jer dik wei!!


2nd Stunt



shot was taken kat padang UPM, panas2 membahang. and i know this gonna be an eating stunt, my heart told me the truth ler pulak. makan apa??



kalau kau tak sangka akak makan menda ni, akak lagi ler x sangka yang tekak akak leh telan menda2 ni babe!!! telur kambing ngan lam pie cacing. rasanya akak x makan cacing tu, but kot2 le ada yang terlepas kat tekak akak, lantak jer lah, pejam mata! YES FIEBIE, i ate those junks!


i remember masa ni si Ken yang cino guy tu terkuor, lepas our shot ni kitorg pi lepak mamak, ko tau dia pi mintak apa, mee goreng. ngah2 makan tu tetiba leh teringatkan pie cacing ni, hah terus termuntah kuor belahak2. ko dah tau baru pas makan cacing yang ko pi order mee goreng napanya.

nyam nyam....ko boleh makan ni??

slurrppppppp





yey done!!!

ye kak red, silakan muntah


mestilah akak nak maintain vogue dik weii..x kan aku nak muntah mengadap kamera! tu pasal ko dapat back ass akak jer while muntah part, ko hengat aku nak simpan lam perut apa yang aku dah telan. x byk, sket pun kuor gak lah.




akhirnya berbaloi gak, i beat Ken's timing, and sent him home. sian ken, bengang dia bila akak beat timing dia for 1st and 2nd stunt ni. dada aa......... so sapa2 nak kenalan ngan Ken, dia masih single, masa shot ni ada gf, but after few months, putus katanya. matiklah angkara badi makan cacing.

3rd stunt

Stadium Bukit Jalil
make it short, this is my phobia, correction bodoh from that bloody translator of NTV7, i can swim but translations nya kata aku x leh swim, dia dengao aku ckp 'i can' to pada 'i cant' geram tol aku, bih sume org sms akak tanya 'asal ko kata ko x leh swim, ntv tulih x boleh ni weii' bih ko nak suh akak bising2 pun x guna, dah akak kalah gak kan!




maunya aku x diam, ni phobia aku le dol, dahlah aku nye phobia, kenalah pulak jadi first person yang buat stunt yang merobek rabakkan jantung dada akak. takut tau tak nak masuk lam coffin tu.





mulalah penakut dia datang dah!






bukak solec pun gagal gak. buek malu kaum tetangga jer le akak ni kan!


so u may say that i ve embarrased myself in the national tv but do u know for a millions ppl out there, i was among the luckiest person who got into d final. remember as always, i m a mother some more. even i cant unlock the solec padlock, akak dah buat diri akak sendiri proud to everyone. coz bak kata Mal, 'kak red, mak bangga ngan akak!!!' or bak kata FB, 'that's fantastic' even Shah 'tapi tobat la kak red kalau kena kurung bawah air camtu, kalau i mesti dah nangis dah' and David G si matsaleh ni katanya 'u eat well but u throw even better', Panther too...'we are having big laugh here!!!'...and ramai lagi lah yang akak x larat nak toktok here.


just remember, that u love and proud of me eventhough akak dok kalah.


hik!


malu malu! malu bersejarah katanya





RED MUMMY redded @ 10:45 PM  
Saturday, January 13, 2007
A Party....
Apart of being a good PR in my office, i m also an event manager for any unofficial or official functions for my dept. I will start off by set up the event, set up a mini committee (but it will end up like i m doing most of the jobs, seriously!). and so go on wt find a caterer, what food that we want to serve, to collect the chip in money from the top level people (kita yang bawah2 ni x yah kuor seposen pun), decorating the venue of the event, banner to be printed and pasted, teh tarik must be served for quite numbers of ppl, cake must be ordered and collected on time. inpromtu photographer will snap snap everyone specially me the lady of photograph gituk.


I ve been doing this since 14 yrs ago and I m so happy doing it, and most of the event that i organised will get a good credit from everyone and it s a good points and inputs for my PMS bonus!! hahahahahhahaha


well! anw, i remember the worst event that i ever organized when i was wt Renong back time, it s a talk between the Sisters and Islam (SIS) to our staff. the speaker was damn bad speaker, mmg membosankan, every single minutes, audience left the hall, leaving the speaker talking x berenti, sampai sudah tinggal akak and committes ajer. we were so unhappy and we had a discussion with SIS speaker, and told her that her performance was not as our expectation. kalaupun ada 10points, akak and team can give her 0.01. betul akak cakap, mmg inilah event yang memalukan akak, sampai akak kena hentam and due to that akak terpaksa menghentam si speaker ni lak.


kami sudahi dengan tidak membayar tokens yang rasanya kalo x silap akak lam 1k lebih kot but speaker tu pun cam nak meneggakkan benang yang basah, she pun x nak accept our tokens since she s being bambued very badly by my team speacilly akak yang mmg malu sgt2 masa tu!!

alrite...tutup citer lampau.

my 2 adhoc comm

DG, our farewell boy....i hope to see you as a DAD

i didnt do this banner, but akak arah2 kan jer 2 comm akak buat ni!


so this is a farewell for my consultant, he is very2 close to me, few wks ago he belanja me at Chakri for lunch, so as he is leaving our company for his own good, the next phase of his life, we threw a farewell party for him.


the Event Manager wt the comm



i sent an email invite to everyone, i told them to hush2 from the boy that we want to farewell to and all are in order! that s good. everyone listen to me. but in the meantime, i sent one personal invite to him, told him that i would like to have a date wt him. though i know that he will sense it, but at least he x berani nak pi our venue to be nak celebrate dia. i even warn him, if he nak pi wee wee pun, hold it off till after the event coz i dont want him to be around the place.


bagus mat salleh ni, x bantah langsung ckp akak!


sibuk la si botak ni




this is my special team, they are rock!!!




the party ended up an hour later, very short but so sweet memory. everyone happy specially DG the farewell boy.


i change my shoes to a sandal, and terus singsing lengan together wt my comm and our cleaner to clean back our chill out area. It s understandable situation, once party habis, x yah disuruh, the comm will hv to kemaskan balik but ada gak yang ngelat and pemalas x nak buat kejer...masalah ni kat mana2 pun ada. but kalau tapau food laju je nak! i hate this kind of people. i wish them makan wt tersedak2, coz again, dahlah malas buat keje tapi bila part bungkus membungkus, which akak yang selalu lead, dia lak yang sibuk2 menempel x malu.



semua kerja2 membersih finished at 620pm, akak terus siapkan barang2, and pack to head off to my gym centre, for my badminton practise.



and now, my legs are all in pain, i had my futsal in the afternoon, 3 hours running here and there for the farewell party, 2 hours for my badminton. and sudahnya jalan dengket2.



i need a good sleep.

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Wednesday, January 10, 2007
Recall..recall...


remember on my dream to get 5 sets of perfumes last week? hye!!! someone heard my voice!!!


my boss and my kelig went to Las Vegas for their long holiday and instead of getting me wt something yang akak 'x bekenan' they end up dptkan akak perfumes!!! i like tauuuu.... last time they bot me a MIKIMOTO pen, adusss....sungguh akak x gembira langsung nyah! pakai depan dema jer, bakang dema aku simpan. now they know, to shut my mouth, perfumes is the best gift ever.





From my boss, the chindian guy that i love to serve the most, he got me this a YSL brand - sedap lembut bau dia . akak rasa dia ni x jumpa perfumes yang red box, tu yang dia amik ni, pink kaler most likely closest to red. akak agak je lah.



another set was from my kelig oso Shaline, the VVIP daughter also a chindian lady. nampak le sgt kawan2 akak ni majority chindian gitu dok.


hok ni dia ckp kat akak - "Red i chose red applye DKNY coz you love and gila red so much. i got apple green for me!" wahahhahahaha! and today when we both are in the office, i asked her to smell me bila dia ckp "oi i m also pakai my apple green lah!'

to both of you, who dont understand my bahasa melayu in this blog, and i dont think they read or visit my blog, kalau ada pun sebulan 2 bulan sekali le gamaknya - thanks for the tot!!! it makes me so so wangi day and nite. akak sukaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!



ok next story lak, early this wk, Loushi Abang telah menalipon akak sambil dad akak lak standing next to Loushi Abang (while they were in Abang's school). so katanya Abang diminta tukar ke session pagi coz session petang yang abang attended la ni students nye 6 orang ajer, and parents lain pun dah agreed for the changes.

oh no!! pening pala akak dik. tukar kan abang ke session pagi will change the whole of our family system punya jadual. but anak nye pasal...kena la gak tukar.


anw, akak rasa banyak kebaikan dr keburukan bersekolah pagi ni lah. satu akak x lambat pi opis, pasai kan akak kena bangun awal gila nak sediakan breakfast, nak siap2kan dia, and akak rasa segar jer bila anak2 anto akak kat keter akak ngan muka2 riang gembira di pagi hari utk kita bekerja. x sebelum ni, akak pi keje dema dok lena tido lagi.


one thing lagi, abang pun kitorg trained tido awal, by 9 tu dah kena tido but so far terlepas gak dia after 930 kat2 kol 10 gak br msk tido, x leh terleka sket lah.
nak jadikan cite kan, few wks ago akak redeemed akak nye Bonuslink points, so pikir2 kan, akak x penah ada radio alarm cenggini. walaupun nama brandnya amat memuskilkan akak but since bendanya dah ada kan, free gitu lagi.
umah akak tu radio ke hi fi ke ada sampai 3,4 bijik tapi satu hapa x dipakai. semua peram tunggu nak jual kati le gamaknya. motif akak amik ni coz ada alarm tu. jadi pada sesapa yang berpenyakit payah nak bangun pagi cam akak ni, belilah radio alarm ni. apa2 brand x de halangan langsung janji volume suara radio alarm tu leh kuatkan pelankan segala. cam kes akak ko ni, kena dikuatkan baru sedo diri sket nak bgn.


and satu lagi lak citer yang betul2 lah buat akak gelak segelak2nya. ko tau ada la sipolan ni punya berangan2, buat budget tahunan gila2 ni leh berangan nak pi overseas dik!!! siap berangan lagi bonus dapat berbulan2 gitu. january baru masuk few days, dia sudah berangan like no ending story. banyak lagi dik yang diangan2kannya...tapi akak pendekkan citer - di mana akak dapat maklumat ini adalah kerana silap dan salah dan kecuaian anda sendiri, dan Tuhan pertunjukkan kecuaian anda itu pada akak yang pernah menjadi mangsa persahabatan seseorang.



aduih..gelak gelak...... wahahahahahaha..meh dik gelak sesama.

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Monday, January 08, 2007
Wheely wheels...


semenjak beranak pinak ni, i dont hv much nite life le pulak. most of the time kena spend and be together2 wt family. specially the kiddos la...

when we were about to go out, my little sis and her hubby came to drop by for a while and singgah hantar keropok lekor kelantan, yeah..they celebrated their raya haji in kelantan and singgah berhoneymoon di somewhere, and after a wk baru pulang to KL.


i actually wanted to post my shoes lar!!! oso my new red pant yang kembang2 ala skirt..akak suka!!!

utk project mingguan kali ni, kami ke bday party The Lion King's son - my kids calls him, Uncle Lion nasib baik le x call bininya Untie Lion and anak lion! but seriously, he called and named himself as Singa Utara!!! even keter dia pun, di tukaunye nama Singa Utara..gila tol mamat ni.


Yellow shirt is the host - Singa Utara

hello to Mokhtar the pengantin baru, next to sirman



ha kat bday party ni gak, i met a Silent Reader of Red Mummy - Intan namanya. akak lupa sangat2 nak amik gambao dia lah...the moment akak salam dia, she immediately said - Kak Red kan ni. wah! macam perasan gemer je akak kan, padahal dia kenal laki akak tu pasal dia baca blog akak and got to know me when he saw Sirman in the group as well...

To Intan - it s a pleasure to mee you dear!

To the Host, Encik Singa and family, thanks for inviting us....bbq ayam ko sedap sungguh la!




On Sun, akak lak cam malas lak nak tido petang so sirman decided we go to Titiwangsa then. akak x tau apa ada kat sana yang buat dia nak sgt bwk kitorg ni pi, i hv no idea bout the Wheels bagai tu, coz akak x meliputi sgt nakhoda Pelancaran Tahun Melawat Malaysia a nite before. so after the kids bertunggang langgang kat swimming pool - rutin harian di hujung minggu, kami pun berarak ke Tasik Ttwangsa.


i tell you...sepanjang jalan Tun Razak nak ke route roundabout jalan pahang tu, jem nye masyallah...cam semut. from this side of the road we can see the opposite sume sesak basak, polis tutup jalan sana jalan sini bagai. but we maintained gak lawan arus manusia kereta yang banyak tak terbilang tu, it was luckily that day we drove my car so boleh mencilok sana sini.


but akhirnya, hasil bijak pandai sirman mengkelentong dan menggodek jalan2 di taman titiwangsa tu, walaupun sampai melanggar jalan sehala aka jalan mati, we safely reached and parked sekangkang kera wt the carnival's venue. mmg dekat, x penat and x letih...x sesia la datang, specially the kids yang dah over excited sgt tgk meriahnya carnival TMM kali ni.




everything looks kewl for me, meriah macam2 ada dijual, ada gak concert ada gak show by the jet ski ppl and of cos yang paling menjadi tumpuan is the eye on malaysia tu lah. but nak naik tu akak pikir banyak kali lah bila tengok arus manusia yang beratur, mak datuk, x sanggup la akak nak redah dik. tunggu lain bulan je lah!


akak x de lah beria sgt nak naik, but abang yang sungguh2 even till today pun he kept reminding us to bring him there naik menda yang berpusing2 tu. hish! budak2 ni semuanya dema nak belasah.





anw, being an addicter shopper for the flee market, i love the scenarios. but mahal2 gak lah orang kita ni kalo berjualan. i got gegirl a pair of red sandal which cost me RM10 and for me a shocking pink sandal rege RM30. itu pun setelah dibargained! katanya berlabuci2 tu yang mahai...korok mung ler! aku beli kat Bali sandal berlabuci, few years back..duit msia pun x sampai 10 inggit, tahan sampai la ni. seller tu cakap 'sandal akak beli kat saya ni leh tahan lebih 7 tahun, provided akak simpan, jangan pakai2' - kurang asam kau kan!





and makan2 dia pun mahal gak dik. since we got there pun at 745pm, dah dinner time, after pusing satu tasik ni, we intend to try dia nye sup segala sup. Gear box soup ngan beehun sup cost me RM14!!! tekejut bana akak wei!!! makan je lah, perut pun dah berdikir barat sgt kan...


tapi best dek pi masa ngah dema carnival ni, rasa lain dr yang lain jer since akak ni berkira sket kalo nak pi tpt2 gini. btw, kalo nak pi, sila lupakan kasut tinggi anda...akak pun pakai sandal jer, ko nak suh kaki melecet cat walk ngan ketuk ketak satu tasik nak pusing.


for those yang nak berwheely....good luck utk menempuh Q yang panjang.




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Sunday, January 07, 2007
Badminton begins...



untuk memastikan akak terpilih di dalam pertandingan badminton di opis akak, kita harus mulakan latihan tubi sekerap yang mungkin. i m not a good badminton player, im so suck at it! but it was few months ago lar.... i always believe in kalau kita berlatih bertubi2, kalau kita rajin and sentiasa percaya pada kemampuan diri, i know i can get it done!


but since akak ada 2 motivations for that so akak pedulik hapa:

1. utk bermain dengan lebih cekap dan handal

2. utk kurus!

ha kan akak dah cakap, i m serious to get fit and get slim better than now.


so anw, i ve started my badminton exercise since a year ago but selalu ponteng berlatih. but mulai selepas raya aritu, akak x de miss2 dah main badminton ni. every Fri after work is a must wajib utk turun ke court. At least an hour mesti kena kuorkan peluh and brush up my skill.




i m targetting 6 months to be a player yang boleh main, not a player yang handal bermain. diff ye 2 menda ni. akak harap jugak bila dema smash, akak x lari, coz record akak lari dan mengelak bila kena smash amatlah susah utk dipecahkan. jadi kalau nak beat me, bagi je smash kat akakkk.......bukak pekung lak aku!




so for this wk, akak bawak pemain import to join us also...





the orange shirt is pemain import yang x le sehandal mana (matiklah akak kena ngan dia pasni!!!) .... x lain x bukan mr sirman...yang lain2 tu geng2 badminton akak yang setiap minggu will be playing wt me.




but i need more games to be playing other than badminton. still not enaf to exercise my fitness n to target my slimness as well. what else yeah??



nak suh aku pi gym? jangan arap la........ akak tenung jer ler gamaknya set gym tu.



but i think, after seeing my sirman's performance in badminton.....i really can beat him one day one time. hik!



RED MUMMY redded @ 12:28 AM  
Friday, January 05, 2007
No MC??



Dear Kak Red


For your new reso, i would like you to add in this one in your list too:



No MC leave at least for the first quarter of 2007.




Good luck.

Ruqayah




hey! i am not an MC collector lah..it just that, i m always sick lar...tuuiiiii wahlauchiannn!!!

RED MUMMY redded @ 3:46 PM  
Thursday, January 04, 2007
My Baby Boy....




my experience to send abang at school was started since 2 yrs back. masa tu abang baru 4 yrs old, and he wanted to go to school (of cos k/garten la kita ckp). since he was only 4 yrs old, we tot of no no hosey for him to go yet, let s enjoy the hidup kanak2 riangnya dengan penuh bahagia. but he got bored at home wt his grannies.

he usually spent his day time wt his Tok to lepak mamak and masjid (kerana itulah abang amat handal makan tosey, sedangkan aku kenal tosey pun melalui abang, how good his Tok mengajarnya makan di mamak). anw, kat masjid ada sekolah agama, and everytime Tok ber zohor and asar di dalam masjid, he will kuor senyap2 and dok kat tangga masjid tengok kids from the sekolah agama opposite of the masjid.


and sesudah toknya habis bersolat, dengan nada sedih 'tok, abang nak go to school'.


and atuk will tell us...and my answer will still no no no.


till one day one time 'mummy abang nak go to school, abang dah big'


and that was when we agreed to send abang to tadika near my mom's area. we enrolled him only for twice a week since he was only 4 yrs old that time (ikutkan lom 4 taun pun since dia born on oct). kira 3 taun lebih la....

for the first few wks, senang sungguh dia nak pi sekolah, masuk at 8am, so by 7 lebih tu mmg dah berjaga siap2 gi sekolah. wpun twice a week. and akhirnya, sekolah ke mana bila dia mula malas bangun pagi. budaya parents dia yang tido lambat jatuh ke anak.....bila malam susah tido dok mengadap kartun jer....pagi pun cam nak rak mengejut, kalau takat menangis mengejut meraung x nak pi school tu dah biasa for us.
i remember, abih jer concert sekolah dia which was on sept/oct 2005...abang terus x pi sekolah. he will only woke up after 11am..sekolah pun dah ke mana. anw, he kept telling me that he doesnt like the teachers and school. so akak pun x nak push him.

but when he turns to 5 yrs old (approx 4 yrs ++), we sent him to a chinese k/garten. 5 days a week, no miss miss this time. luckily kat sini we hv 2 options, either to send him in the morning or afternoon. so being abang yang payah bangun pagi like the parents .... we enrolled him for the afternoon session started at 12noon till 3pm.


it s quite convienent for us. and he seems to be very much happy in his new school.


today, at his first day of school again..after almost 2 months cuti2 msia, abang is excitedly to back on stage again. We bot him a new blue bag, new blue pencil case wt batman spiderman man man icon, lots of new pencils and rubber. not forgotten the new colour pencil. and siaplah every 3,4 months i hv to buy new colour pencils again since pangai abang yang kurang pandai menjaga barang peribadi. bila tanya mana hilang 'frens amik la mummy'...


btw, during my age - the most expensive bag that i ever had was RM20. but budak2 zaman skang very the high demanding. since he is only interested wt blue bag yang siap ada holder tarik2 tu, mana nak dapat at RM20. it s almost RM40! itupun after JJ sales.

for me, to get him a new sets of bags and sets are not coz of menunjuk2 etcs, but utk memberi semangat pada abang supaya lebih mencintai going to school. kids need lots of motivation. 100% of his frens will get a new set, sekiranya abang pi sekolah ngan beg and segala peralatan lama, semangatnya pasti hilang bila kawan2nya ada yang baru tp dia masih pakai yang lama...begitulah kanak2.



anw, today again abang pi the same school. options are given either to send him in the morning or afternoon also. since maknya x nak kelam kabut di pagi hari, we agreed for him to stay in the afternoon session la.

last nite, abang has promised me b4 im asking him to do so.
mom, abang x nak play2 kat school ye, abang nak study hard.


i hope apa yang dia cakap dikotakan. coz i kept telling him, if he gets good result, his dad will get him a play station but if he x kotakan janji2 nya, no way for us to pamper him wt it.



and i reminded him again, that i will check his behavior and his day to day activity from his loushi. as usual, dia sokmo ckp 'mummy dont la call loushi, daddy call x per'. he knows that his mom is very possesive and his dad is a bit relax and ez to deal wt compared than mak dia kan..so tu pasal dia leh suh akak dok diam2 buat x tau ngan dia and school. no way anakku.
and today sirman told me that abang got a new loushi, so when i asked sirman, what s the teacher s name? apa no hp teacher?....being a very relax daddy, the answer from him was..'alah lupa lah nama dia, apa tah, no pun lupa nak amik' - itulah daddy abang yang selamba. so once i get the loushi's number later, i will call and have a nice chat2 first sambil mengingatkan aka mengwarning 'pls be nice to my son, if he is being naughty, pls dont pinch or shout at him, tell him nicely yeah'.... . x caya?? i ve been practising this since for the past 2 yrs already and i will keep doing it till donno when la. u can scold him but in a right manner, in US...teachers dont believe in shouting or pinching etcs...kanak2 harus menggunakan cara yang lembut. and usually, loushi will listen to my words since they know they are dealing wt fussy mother of their students.



as previous years, sirman sent him to school instead of me. but i will ensure the Standard 1 of him, will be accompanied by his mom..i will. so everyday, sirman will send b4 going to work, Tok will fetch pulak later. Abang once told me, nak naik bas sekolah...jegil mata akak dibuatnya. being a very possesive mother, i cant let my kids away from the responsible ppl that i trusted the most. i read lots of junk things happend to kids, i dont know when can i release him to use the school bus, but not now even he wanted too. and i have to depend on my dad mbe fore few more years....


anw, talking about abang...wpun umurnya baru 5 taun (ikut year is supposed to be 6 yrs la)...dia sudah mulai malu in public. yday when we were at playground, he doesnt want me to hug him, to hold his hands even to walk next to me.



abang is big and abang malu kalau his frens or his girlfrens saw his mom holding his hands in public.


i asked him yday..abang malu mummy hold abang ye?


with shy shy look....he said 'taklah, but i dont want'


i know he is now getting bigger but he is still my baby boy.


my baby boy is rejecting his mom indirectly. my baby boy thinks he is big enaf to walk far from his mom.


i m not ready to let him walk without my hands yet. no no. he will forever be my baby boy.




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Wednesday, January 03, 2007
Laziness...


i started my first day at work in 2007 with kemalasan tahap maksima.

i wish i have a bed in my office.

i wish noone will disturb me while i m dreaming of being a rich lady in my sleeping mode.

i wish so many2 things.

but i end up telling u a fairytails story.... !!!


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Tuesday, January 02, 2007
A year in VA...


Raya wt family is always apart of my life. since i got married, we hv to go to both places, apparently since my side is nearer to us, we will pay a visit to my mom's hse first than only to sirman's side.


everytime adha came, my dad will always be the important person in leading the korban dari awal menyembelih kambing/lembu up to melapah dan membahagi2 kan daging2 mahupun tulang mahupun ekor!

this is my bro in law helping my at home, melapah ekor lembu.....ni yang org panggil nnt sup ekor!!! kaw kaw made from my mom.


epi, my bro terpaksa beraya ngan kaki berbungkus this time. 2 nites b4 raya, dia langgar lubang mana tah kat fed highway and zerupp zerapppppppppp as we tot so lah. so ended wt kaki berbungkus. to epi who reads my blog - congratulations for being the havoc accident victim this year, think this is yr 3rd or 4th time for the past 2006.


at my in law's side pulak, we had all the bbq on the nite of adha. well....kat sini i just ate makan and makan. the best part was a gathering between among of us. we chat makan chat makan and makan most of the time.




since adha falls a day b4 new year, so we rushed back to VA to watch the fireworks from our balcony. in respect to the hari raya qurban and saudara2 kita yang dimusibahi banjir specially in Johor, the govt has decided not to have any celebration of the new year. hanya bunga api sahaja yang ado itupun not from the top of klcc, fireworks kali ni x betapa cantik and menarik though yang excited for anak2 ajer.

gegirl missed the scenario coz while odw back from my in law's hse dia dah ketiduran, and abang was extremely excited sampai sanggup bangun tido while in the car nak tgk bunga api.

this scenario can be seen every new year or even the merdeka event, ppl are stopping by infront of VA to get a good view of KLCC, to watch the boom boom bang of the fireworks. photos taken from my balcony area.

genap setahun yang lampau, on the day of 31st december 2005, same day we moved in to VA....





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