Monday, December 18, 2006

Adab dan Adat...




Melihat perkahwinan Nana, my little sister, i realized that lots of adab dan adat turun temurun yang masih digunapakai. Well, even Nana's wedding cant beat the grand and the glamourous of her 2nd sister, Kak Red la of cos, it was still a happening and memorable event.



Since my anniversary is just around the corner, i remember back few years ago, the Adab and Adat in our wedding pun lebih kurang sama dengan suasana perkahwinan Nana..



Pls spare me, yr few minutes to look and read through the Adab and Adat during the reception at our place, KL's side (masalahnya gambo2 kat Kelantan x siap2 lagi...so merasalah gambo kat KL jer lagi kan, but i promise you it s all new photos!)



Adab dan Adat Berbunga Api Bersama Sanggul Lintang.....





Adab dan Adat Bermarhaban dan Bercukur Jambul...








Adab dan Adat Berarak Berkompang dan Berbunga Api walau di siang hari....







Adab dan Adat Menyambut Tetamu...(salam kaup)





Adab dan Adat Berdoa Memohon Restu...






Adab dan Adat Tol di Pelaminan....





Adab dan Adat Merenjis..





Adab dan Adat Makan Beradap....






Pastinya bila anda melihat adab dan adat ini, u would know dari mana asal keturunan nenek moyang Kak Red....



Sunday, December 17, 2006

Countdown..

nothing special for these few days.......resah gelisah wt sinus, sengal lengan coz of badminton, lenguh kaki of futsal..but i had fun!!! n i still cant start my dieting, huz has been very helpful to monitor my diet malangnya akak ko ni degil...bak mencurah air di daun keladi jer. i hv the spirit but i dont hv the gutts yet...tak tau lah bila leh mula diet ni. if u ask me to reduce kemasukan air or coklat or sweets lam badan akak ni, sah boleh, tp nasi....benda yang akak suka like ni payah nak kurang2kan dik. kita cuba lagi ye?



anw, 2006 is saying good bye very2 soon. im not here to chat bout a new resolution yet, or apa yang dah terjadi for this year. im counting my very the very best day for our anniversary.











anniversary yang ke berapa? it s time to guess....






Thursday, December 14, 2006

My girlfriends...



I slept at 445am, woke up at 1pm..gila tido le akak ni kan. bangun masak kung kang kung kang.....like we are cuti2 msia since sirman is also on mc..the kids are rocks....we fight we bergusti n makan. Not only that, akak sambung tido at 3pm till 530 pulak....but i must say, 1 whole day tido pun, my hp is like working on my behalf. been receiving lots and tons of official calls, lam mamai2 ngah tido akak leh jawab steady jer, but pastu leh sambung balik mimpi. today also akak dapat chance to goreng keropok that we bought from kelantan...sedap siot!!! mmg sedap. each batang keropok tu x lah besar2 alang, so bila potong utk goreng mmg comel2 je...anak2 pun suka. cicah sama sos yang diimport khas juga dari kelantan, kopi o panas menambahkan lagi pembuka selera, kebetulan anak2 baru balik swimming wt their dad, mmg sesuai sangat menu di petang ari MC ni kan...


my dad always told me that i m like burung hantu, i cannot sleep early at nite but i m so in love wt tido di siang hari. eventhough akak dapat ckp 8 hours sleep at nite, but most of my wkends are full wt tido siang. after having our lunch, sirman will bz wt yahoo chess, kids will be bz wt their cartoons and play here n there, so do i....masuk bilik tarik curtain kebobommmmmmmmmm.....


i kept telling ppl that for me, tidur is satu exercise, tidur di siang hari is the way i pamper myself. sorry la kalo u all x agree wt me, but i ve been living in this world for more than 3 decades and sejak azali lagi akak mmg kaki tidur siang. my mom will agree wt anaknya ini. record paling dasat tidur yang akak penah buat was like my anak dara time, 7 or 8 yrs ago. that day was a sat working day, so balik dr opis thari tu at 2pm, akak terus lena..... and finally sedor2 dah kat kol 1pm the next day of sunday. luckily masa tu duduk single, kalau ngan mak abah akak mau kena simbah ngan air sejuk!



at nite...tv pc tv pc...since i got fed up and ajak sirman hit the chess. and i have another day to recover back my eyes...should be back to office on Friday, but kalau sambung lagi cuti/mc cam menarikkan....gila hapa, keje akak kat opis tu setokan menunggu!!!


Anw today, i wanted to share few stories wt u on my girlfrens, as they are not only frens but we talk we share problems we fight yada yadaaa yadaaa. there are few of them, some nama2 terpaksa akak rahsiakan demi menjaga maruah diri etcs. but i know some of the readers yang kenal akak bertahun2 yang lampau, would know the persons that i m talking about.




Nen is working in the same building wt me, we ve been knowing each other for so so so long, 12, 13 yrs ago but we got 'clicked' lam 2,3 yrs lately ni. She is a petite lady like me, a mother of 2 as well. wait till u meet her laki, so hugeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee. when i say huge, i really mean it!!! few months ago, akak ngan nen ada some miscommunications a bit. But so far we are ok already....the maturity and lagipun x de mende yg digaduhkan cuma masing2 berjauh ati. Nen is one of my silent reader as well. She is soft, but im loud but we still can bang!!


emm...i love walking wt her coz we both are comel2 and cute2 aka kecik2 ladies.




Marsya - a sabahan lady but dah stabil in KL. a mother of 2 boys, she s few years younger than me. i can say she is a very2 social lady that i ever known. we both staying near by to each other but hard to meet. She is currently happy wt her single life. Just got her single mom title few months ago..fly fly fly like a bird. La ni dating wt a new guy, akak dah jumpa the new bf as well....hope the relationship will be lasting. Marsya is one of my hunt and external games buddy. apa2 games jer dia leh bantai masuk as long as dia leh commit lah. For the past 2 years, we ve been entering lots of games and run and hunts, and we enjoy our time together!!!



I know her since emm..bila ye, during my FF audition. so baru lagi lam 2 yrs. but years x kira matter if u can get along wt some ppl, it will suit u. She has a problem in punctuality, there s few of my back entries were talking bout my fren yg failed dalam berjanji, this is her. If u janji at 7pm, u probably can see her at 8pm. last few days when i met her, i warned her 10 times, make sure u come on time. we janji at 10pm, she came at 1020pm, and i purposely leave the house at 1025pm. i want to make sure she reaches hajris first b4 me...dengan makcik ni kena ada trick, if not kejadian lama akan berulang kembali. For my nite life, Marsya will always be my partner!



wt reita and marsya in one of the hunts


Reita Kanagarajah is a chindian lady. She is my best buddy ever, we talk talk like no end, we can be sekepala walaupun bangsa dan agama berlainan. Known her since 2 yrs ago, my FF buddy, she s the one yang kalahkan akak lam FF episode the other day...nice huh? Reita currently holding a single mom's title. I ve been standing her side, during her upside down. When she got married the other day, i was truly happy, but bila dia got a divorced pun akak cam pelik..i didnt get a chance to see the wedding photos now dah become single pulak. She is dating wt someone that has similar name wt me, but at this stage, i do not know where the r/ship will go. There s something is going on wt the r/ship.


i cant tell u further on Reita, she will bambu me coz she does reads my blog at least once a month....ahaks!!! so teruk lah lu reita.



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I 'lost' 2 best girlfrens this year whom i know since 13 yrs ago. they have gone missing no where though i know where they are. they both are too too bz with their work, as last my communications wt them, their workloads buat akak berjauh hati. we were then have lost in touch, no more gossiping no more chatting and no more meeting. i do miss them both, but sebagai seorang yang cepat terasa and merajuk, i m being so selfish to myself too.


i was talking to them, but when ppl dont hear what im trying to say yet i heard their voices, it hurts me a lot. some of the readers (kim bassinger specially) know sapa yang akak maksudkan ini. the worst is, one of my best gf ever tu is staying near by wt me jugak, working in the same tower wt me. not only that, and lagi bestnya she is actually working in the same office and company wt me!!! how sad....and do you know even we work in the same office, i never bumped into her at all!!! funny? that s the true story of kak red and her 'lost' gf. usually when we walk together, ppl will call them as Tower 1 and Tower 2 and Kak Red will be in the middle between the towers.



if u noted about my silence at so sudden, that means i m giving u white warning ceremony, i m hurt!


my another gf, working very near wt klcc, usually our friday eve will be together. my first week in klcc, we both did gila thing when we had our lunch and after work lepaking in aseana / dome / shrooms/coffeebean gossiping. we both were so excited akhirnya we can meet up easily after so so long. I know where to find her, but being kak red will always be kak red, hatiku minta dipujuk yet she pun being silent. not sure whether she reads my blog coz berbulan2 yang lampau, she keeps saying 'aku x de masa la nak baca blog ko, keje aku menimbun'. so u know what i mean kan...



both of them are standing beside me di masa susah dan senang akak. also anything happend to them, i will be the first person to talk to, setiap kali depa bergaduh besor wt laki dema, setiap kali depa nakkan akak find out about their laki's activity behind their back, i will be the Private Investigator. I m spending most of my time to be their listeners and i do keep their secret till die, that s our promised. but now, they dont need me and i have to turn to someone else to be my talking frens.



i miss them....






Wednesday, December 13, 2006

Conjunctivitis....




the above photos can be considered as a Daddy Day Care - kaedahnya akak keje and sirman was on leave for few days, so he spent wt kids at the Megakidz layaning Barney etcs...



2 old photos that i just wanna share wt u






the nikah event lam masjid in which akak kena grounded by my dad to jaga rumah, dats y u cant see kak red wt the full hijab



oh yes one another thing......


i m sick.

the whole family members of kak red are sick.

we are infected wt the early stage of conjunctivitis.

i was in d office when i got this sms 'i m at home, 2 days mc'. i quickly called him and yeah..he has the red eyes...em em...

b4 he smsed me, akak nye mata pun dah rasa itchy2 sana sini..specially on the right one. so i assume probably on my lens lah...i went to clean rub and wash it again and again, but still not only itchy but merah le pulak mata kanan akak. i believe, it s bcos of my lens, not the sakit mata merah tu lah.


but my whole team dok forced me to leave the office immediately. they do not want to come nearer to me, they bambu me to touch the door anything that akak touch pun dema membebel. so i left at sharp 530 yet they ve been asking me to leave the office since 4pm. it was heavy raining my dear, akak mls nak balik cepat coz u know me, raining and traffic jem are both my allergic for driving home.


so i was then headed back straight to meet my family panel Doctor Raha. the moment i stepped in 'ni mesti u sakit mata kan, pagi tadi yr husband came' - yeah right!!! she treated me as a conjunctivits patient eventhough i claimed its not lah...it s my lenses yang buat hal....yet she insisted. so i got 2 days mc - i m resting but knowing me, i ll be tagged wt work from home though.


after few hours, i still feel the gatal2 of my eyes...my sirman's eyes mmg dah cam pontianak harum sundal malam meraung, and suddenly. mummy mummy...my eyes!!! oh no!!! abang got infected pulak!


can u see abang's red eyes?



last year, the whole 4 of us mmg kena sekali rap, it was abang yang menjadi pembawak from his school i guess, and some of my officemates pun kena gak hasil dari akak pulak. my sirman, even wt the red eyes, dia pi gak keje since he was like bz like gila punya that time, pakai sunglasses pretend like orang x leh berjangkit yet we know how s the conjunctivits been flying around right.



but the good news is: i can wake up very very the late for these 2 days. hik hik hik....






i m so unlucky and luckly lady.



Tuesday, December 12, 2006

Three Things...

someone tagged me over email..so akak jawab kat sini ye.



THREE SCREEN NAMES YOU HAVE HAD: XX, Mummy and Kak Red


THREE PHYSICAL THINGS YOU DON'T LIKE ABOUT YOURSELF: My tummy, tummy and tummy


THREE PARTS OF YOUR HERITAGE:..errr...my petite size? kira 3 in one lah!


THREE THINGS THAT SCARE YOU: Putting on weight and tgk cite hantu lah, pastu mlm nak tido pun leh terbayang2 muka hantu tu nanti. and bila my loved ones ditimpa sakit or malapetaka


THREE THINGS YOU ARE WEARING RIGHT NOW: i actually wish to wear red everyday boleh? gila hapa..... but i look so so slim in black though. back to question: suit, skirt, shirt...tu je lah...


THREE OF YOUR FAVOURITE BANDS OR MUSICAL ARTISTS: siti lah, whoelse..lelain tu bantai la, akak x heran.


THREE OF YOUR FAVOURITE SONGS: Asma al Husna lagi 2 mls nak pk..


THREE THINGS YOU WANT IN A RELATIONSHIP: i have it all already.



THREE PHYSICAL THINGS ABOUT THE OPPOSITE SEX THAT APPEAL TO YOU:Height, smile and his dressing and attire.


THREE OF YOUR FAVOURITE HOBBIES: tidor, chess and tidur - blogging is not my priority ye!


THREE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO REALLY BADLY RIGHT NOW: 1 month straight long leave...boleh?


THREE PLACES YOU WANT TO GO ON VACATION: at my age, i just dont mind as long as this time, i want to bring the kiddos along.


THREE KIDS' NAMES YOU LIKE: abang and gegirl...real name? find out sendiri lah.


THREE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO BEFORE YOU DIE: Errr .. this is hard .. i do not want to be the current Kak Red as u know now. I want to be someone else, emm...hatiku masih belum terbuka.


THREE WAYS THAT YOU ARE STEREOTYPICALLY A BOY: Kasar kot .. and im loud!


THREE WAYS THAT YOU ARE STEREOTYPICALLY A GIRL: stupid question lah ni.


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on the other hand, i would like to hit this entry for my beloved adik, Archmal - for his 25th Birthday today. He s been promoting his bday since berbulan2 yang lampau, sampai ada countdown in his own blog sendiri - bosan aku tau Mal.











to http://archmal.blogspot.com - selamat ulang tahun yg ke 25 tahun. i know someone yang same age wt you but he looks damn old, but ko ni ada sket muda lah, gaya pun masih kanak2 riang!


mkn kat hajris lah nanti yeah...fiebs open table.

Monday, December 11, 2006

Diet x menjadi...



baru 2 jam jamah sesuku nasi, dah lapau nasi lar.....

camne nak pantang nasi for 6 months???

huz, fifi...i think i need a personal trainer lah yang allow me to eat nasi.



i heard CINTA is good, ada sapa2 nak accompany akak tengok x? my sirman is a bz bz man- so usually i ll be watching alone.......hem em em..